I Know You Ain’t A Pimp, But Pimp..

In the most recent Superman film, Jar-El put the entire genealogy and population of the planet Krypton into his newborn son. By doing so he ensured that the planet could live on through Superman, the last son of Krypton. 
What’s the relation? Simple. 

I think every human being is meant to be everything. We are all flawed, irrational, emotional creatures who are everything to an extent. You’re a murderer, a sadist, petty, a liar, a thief, or a cheat all to an extent. 

I don’t believe that all humans are born good. I believe that humans are in turn born blank with the capability to be a masterpiece or a complete disaster. Look at new born babies, for example. (Thanks, Quan.) Newborns have no knowledge of manipulation, lying or deception. Newborns operate in a manner that is vital to their survival. In fact, babies will scream and cry until they get what they need and once they recognize that aforementioned behavior yields results, they use it to their advantage to not only get what they need, but what they want

If a baby will manipulate you, what makes you think an adult won’t?

 Humans are selfish creatures by nature. Self preservation and survival are all that matter. Everything that I’ve written up to this point was an opening so you guys can understand what this is truly about.

Manipulation.

I say this in the most serious way possible, I’m not being an asshole or attempting to glorify myself, I’m only being honest. I am a lover by nature, but a pimp by blood. My mother taught me how to uphold, respect and honor women. She taught me how to be a good boy so I would go up to be a good man. I learned how to love a woman from a woman. 

My father, on the other hand taught me how to break women. I don’t know if he did it purposely or if he was just following his programming, but as I grow older and deal with more women consistently I’ve realized that I’m subconsciously a manipulator. I can get women to do things I want them to do or evoke particular emotion without even trying. I get into the heads of women without even thinking twice about it, because that’s my training. It’s almost like being a retired master thief. Danny Ocean can’t go into a bank to withdraw $100 without casing the place and I can’t date a woman without attempting to break her. 

I’m the son of a sweetheart and a womanizer. In my experiences with women I opened up entirely too early. I was under the impression that giving a woman your heart was enough and that they would cherish it, when it’s the exact opposite. Your heart isn’t for everyone and most of us aren’t taught that. In turn, after realizing that my mother’s teachings weren’t getting me where I wanted to be with women, I applied my father’s philosophy to my life.

“Pimp or Die.”

It was a life changing instance. Everything became fluid, it all made sense. All my training that I was unaware of came seeping out of my mouth. I watched “The Mack” as a teenager, I read Iceberg Slim books, I watched how myFather  operated with my Stepmotherand own   Mother and saw how effective manipulative psychology was. I watched myStepmom  boo-HOO cry on Wednesday, just to cook a five course meal and sit on my Dad’s lap on Thursday. 

I was in awe.

 I learned to use my mouthpiece, bravado and body language to my advantage. I learned that controlling the body of a woman was an easy task, but controlling the mind of a woman was a feat worth the challenge. Guilt trips, emotional turmoil and reverse psychology to control. I learned to keep notes on women to remember things about them. Build entire files, keep a literal notepad so that you always have a reference. Always break things off smoothly so you can return. Learn their deepest secrets in order to use them against them if need be and expose your own secrets and flaws to gain trust. It’s fucking sick. Sick and twisted, but effective. 

To this day I think that women desire to be manipulated in increments. They don’t want you to be too into them, too available or always kind. I believe that moderation is key, and I may be a bit of an extremist. 

Listen. 

If you purposely ignore phone calls or texts so a person will miss you more or respond a certain way, you’re a manipulator. If you play or run any type of “game” you’re a manipulator! Pimp and player are synonymous with manipulator. Having “game” is having the skill to manipulate. “You got a mouthpiece on you.” “You talk me right out of my panties. “You’re a charming bastard, aren’t you?” All compliments to my manipulation.

In all honesty, we’re all manipulators. Manipulation is apart of the human psyche and whether we like it or not, it must be acknowledged. Manipulation is a survival skill. I may be wrong for manipulating women in order to protect my own emotions, but we’re all fucking wrong. The true question is, can one truly function emotionally without manipulation? Think about it. Can I ever be in a successful relationship without playing mind games or intentionally being unavailable or keeping things interesting?

Some shit to ponder over, ain’t it?

– International Malcolm 

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