Nigga You Lying. 

“They don’t like it when you tell em the truth, I’d rather be realer than you!”

Young Super Future
“Just tell me!”

You see this picture? I have no idea what that screenshot is from, but I can almost guarantee that any woman who has told her man that she could handle the truth can relate to the pain.

“Be 100% honest with me. Keep it real no matter the circumstances so I’m not in the dark. Don’t have me out here looking stupid.” 

Baby, I understand that. I also know that you are an emotionally charged entity and you don’t mean exactly what you say sometimes. I know that occasionally you’re overwhelmed by energy and what you say in that moment may be what you want to hear THEN, but what about after that rush of feeling passes? Do you still feel the same? 

A wise man once said:

 “Women want you to keep
it real with them, until you keep it real with them.”

I totally agree. 

Everyone lies. Maybe for the greater good or as a necessary evil, but it’s a fact. Lying is a part of human nature, and I know that the only place where lying occurs more than in media, is in a relationship. 

I may be crucified for betraying my fellow men by posting this, but it needs to be said. When it comes to lying in a relationship, we do most of it. You can ask your man “Why do you lie to me” a million times, and he’s going to deflect or make something up. I won’t, because I don’t give a fuck. 

Without any further bravado or delay, I proudly present, Nigga You Lying: The Top 3 reasons Men lie to women. 


  

“Malcolm did you fuck that girl?” 


“Of course I fucked her! Good too! Had her legs all up in the air, biting her ankle and shit just like I do you. Damn right I did. Now what? What you gone do?” 



Do you really want those thoughts running through your mind? Because if I answer honestly, there’s no telling what you’re going to think happened. 

Obviously I didn’t say that, because I wanted to continue our relationship, plus I didnt want the headache or possible physical harm that comes with delivering the truth to a woman. If you’ve been deceived, male or female, and then you have the truth presented to you, it’s a hard pill to swallow. Every action warrants a reaction, and the last thing you want is her blowing the fuck up because you told her the truth. 

To be completely honest, most of the time we lie just to avoid an argument. It could be about the tiniest thing, but we all know that the beautiful creators of mankind will make a mountain of a molehill. We’ll lie just because we don’t want to hear you bitch. Sticking to a lie is much easier than having an entire emotional ass conversation about whatever it is that you THINK you know. 

We lie because we don’t want to deal with the bullshit that comes with the truth. Sometimes she’ll find out that you’ve lied, and try to make it seem like that she’s angry about the lie. Fucking False. She isn’t mad that you lied to her. She may deflect and make it seem that way, but she’s really angry about whatever the issue at hand is. 
The lie is just fuel. 


  

In the 2000 John Singleton Film “Baby Boy”, Jody told Yvette, “I lie to you because I care about your feelings.” That line is one of the most accurate things I’ve ever heard on film in my entire 25 years. 

The truth is hard. You may not be able to accept the truth, and if you do accept it (which I doubt) you damn sure won’t be able to understand it. As men, especially young men, we do some pretty savage, shitty things. I’m not saying it’s right, but it is real. You never want to crush the heart of woman that you care about. 

Now the ladies are probably rolling their eyes and necks while saying: “Well don’t do scummy shit!” 

Easier said than done, babe. 

. Be real. Why would we tell you that we cheated if you have no evidence or probable cause? Why would we tell you that we did anything terrible when you ask? We wouldn’t, because we love and care for you. If you were some dog ass hoe from the street, we would keep it 20,000 with you because we have no consideration for your feelings. 


“Do I look fat in this?” “Should I dye my hair magenta?” 

Dealing with women is a delicate process. It’s all about balance. We lie to spare your feelings, whether it be a direct lie or a half truth. 

  
Whether you lie directly, indirectly, by omission or fake particular details, the number one reason we lie is in the pursuit of vagina. 

I literally could think of thousands of lies that I’ve told or heard, but we would be here all day. You lie about smashing her homie. You lie about liking musicals. You lie about where you’re at that night, what you’re doing, who you’re with. You lie about having a girlfriend. You lie about how serious you and your girlfriend are. You lie about anything that will damper your chances at achieving insertion. 

We as men have mastered the art of telling women what they want to hear to achieve our endgame. 

A nigga will say anything to get that ass. 

Being truthful is circumstantial. Telling the truth in certain situations will deny you the pussy immediately and or indefinitely. You willing to take that risk? 

Even the true players who “Don’t have to lie to get pussy” either lie by omission or deliver the truth in small doses, at the perfect time. Pimping is nothing but manipulative psychology, and guess what’s a major component of manipulation? 

Bingo. 

Ladies I want you to know that a lot of the time you’re right. Your intuition is real as fuck, I don’t care what anyone says. Niggas lie. We can look at you with a straight face, without any change in our demeanor and lie without blinking twice. What you all have to understand is the reason why. 

There have been times where a man has lied to you, you know the nigga is lying, he knows he’s lying, but you have no proof and you have to just deal with it. Lying is a tool. 

In conclusion, I’ll say this. 

There’s fuckery and foolishness on both sides of a relationship, but there’s always a motive behind the fuckery. Lying is some bullshit, but so is fussing, whining and sending me signals that you want the dick opposed to just telling me. 

See what I did there? We each have our flaws. 

Relationships are a swirl of logic and emotion. A compliation of all the things that make us human. The more I date, the more I realize how we are all unstoppable forces crashing into immovable objects. 

Regardless of what you say, we are equal as human beings, but men and women are not the same. Whatever higher power you believe in created us and put us here to be together because we are different. 

We are going to lie to you, but most of the time the intention is good. 

Isn’t that what the road to hell is paved with? 

Shit. 

Until Next Wave..

International Malcolm 

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2 thoughts on “Nigga You Lying. 

  1. Ty for the raw truth…right now a nigga is in my house I want out in the worst way. ..My intuition is Always on point….this nigga sees my worth, but continues with his bullshit…won’t leave, but imma find a way…trust

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